Here are three great articles on emotional eating from the publication Psychology Today:
Diet: Comfort Food
By: Matthew Hutson
If you’re eating too much, something may be eating away at you
This article touches on the emotional eating research of psychiatrist Roger Gould, who claims that “without understanding the mental triggers that flip on your hunger switch, exercise and diet won’t be enough to help you keep off extra pounds.”
Weight Loss and Faulty Thinking
By: Dennis Brabham, Melissa Hantman, William Whitney
In the battle of the bulge, false beliefs and negative self-talk may be far greater enemies than food or sloth. PT shows you how to fight faulty thinking.
This article focuses on the effects of negative thinking and self-defeating behaviors as contributors toward failing at weight loss.
The Late Night Fridge Raid
By Susan Campbell
Do you lose control of your diet at night? You might suffer from Night Eating Syndrome.
This article examines a study by Joseph Kasof, Ph.D., research associate at the University of California at Irvine that associates dim light, nighttime and winter with binge eating.
From The Earth Times-
What does overeating have to do with the economic crisis? Clinical Psychologist and Emotional Eating Expert, Dr. Denise Lamothe says a lot.
As our economy declines, we become more anxious. As our stress increases, our bodies flood with the hormone cortisol and our appetites rage. As we continue to worry, we may have trouble sleeping which exacerbates the problem. Two more hormones become involved. We excrete excess ghrelin (which increases hunger) and produce less leptin (which signals satiation).
“So when stressed,” says Dr. Lamothe, “appetites increase and so does weight.”
We are all touched by this crisis and may seek food for comfort. If you have been over-indulging lately, you are not alone. “It’s a natural reaction,” says Dr. Lamothe who authored the book The Taming of the Chew. “We learn early on that sugars and carbohydrates comfort us.”
They act like friends urging us to anesthetize feelings with pastries or chocolate. At first, they help us to cope with our feelings. However, when the effects wear off, our bodies demand MORE “treats” to continue keeping feelings at bay.
Dr. Lamothe recommends you do all you can to take care of yourself during tough times. ”You need healthy foods, plenty of water, exercise, rest, relaxation and fun,” she says.
One strategy she suggests as an emotional support aid to her clients is the Bach(R) Emotional Eating Support Kit. This kit contains three Bach Original Flower Remedies(R) (www.bachremedies.com) that can help you manage your eating behavior — Cherry Plum keeps you in control, Crab Apple improves body image and Chestnut Bud helps you stop sabotaging yourself again and again as your stress levels rise and your waistline continues to expand.
“The Bach(R) Emotional Eating Support Kit helps you choose healthier options during times of emotional distress,” says Dr. Lamothe. These all-natural remedies, derived from flowering plants and trees, are safe, effective and can be used without the worry of side effects. The Bach Original Flower Remedies provide a calming positive aid to balancing emotions and restoring energy. Just take 2 drops of each remedy straight from the bottle or diluted into any beverage. The Bach Emotional Eating Support Kit is currently available from Whole Foods Market for $23.95.
HealthNewsDigest.com has an article entitled “Eat, Drink And Be Merry: Your Holiday Eating Survival Guide” by Heidi Diller, RD. The article gives tips on how to avoid gaining weight over the holidays due to emotional eating. For those she calls “Emotional Bingers”, she gives the following advice:
Emotional Bingers: Create a list of things that make you feel good (that doesn’t include food). When you are on the verge of a binge, refer to your list to find another way to soothe yourself. If these techniques don’t eliminate your emotional eating urges, go ahead and indulge–but try substituting healthier foods. Drink sparkling water instead of sugary soda; munch on veggies and healthy snacks; or nibble one or two pieces of dark chocolate instead of binging on a plate of chocolate brownies.
The rest of the article can be read here.
Inny, at I’m No Quitter, has a great blog chronicling “my weight loss struggles and accomplishments, my work towards having a healthier life and the occasional musings about life and it’s meanings.” Her post entitled “On carbs, serotonin and why we binge” is a great first person account of emotional eating and binging. From her post:
What got me interested in reading about depression and serotonin is the struggle I’ve had with my weight for as long as I can remember. I didn’t become overweight because I wasn’t eating healthy. Most of the time I was. Even now I have no problem limiting the food I eat, I love eating vegetables and cooking healthy recipes. What made me gain weight was that at least once every week I would have a huge craving for something sweet or starchy and the urge to overeat on those foods was so big that I gave in and consumed thousands of calories in the form of chocolate bars. Now that I have to lose weight I still deal with those cravings and it’s as hard as always to resist them.
When guilt settles in after binging, I blame myself, I blame lack of self control, I blame laziness in keeping a food diary, I blame my mom or roommate or friend who bought the chocolate in the first place. I try to battle with this in the way everyone else does. I keep a food diary, limit my daily food intake, try not keep any sweet or starchy food at home. What haven’t actually occurred to me is: How great will life be if I didn’t have food cravings in the first place. Or if I had them so rarely they were not a problem.
The rest of the post is available here.
1. CHOOSE THE HEALTHIEST FOODS YOU CAN FIND TO TRULY NOURISH YOUR BODY – You need protein, vegetables, complex carbohydrates (whole grains, veggies) and some healthy fat every single day. You will feel more balanced emotionally when you are caring for your physical needs.
2. DRINK LOTS OF PURE, NON CHLORINATED FILTERED WATER – Buy bottled water or filter your own. Becoming dehydrated affects all your body systems and your emotional self is happier the healthier you are!
3. MOVE YOUR BODY CHOOSE ACTIVITIES THAT YOU ENJOY – You don’t have to exercise for hours at a time. Do less and enjoy feeling yourself as you become stronger, more relaxed and more emotionally balanced.
4. EXPRESS YOUR FEELINGS – No one knows what’s going on inside of you if you don’t tell them. Holding your feelings in leads to emotional, spiritual and physical distress… and is likely to lead you to the cookie jar.
5. MAKE AS MANY SELF-LOVING CHOICES AS YOU CAN – Do this every day and in every area of your life! You will be happier and more content and less likely to develop those emotional food cravings.
6. GIVE YOURSELF QUIET TIME – We all need rest and peaceful time to check in with ourselves. Use deep breathing, meditation or some form of quiet introspection every day.
7. SPEND TIME IN NATURE – We are all a part of the world around us, not separate from it. Relax outdoors, feel the sun and the rain, the warm and the cool. Notice the stars and breathe.
8. NURTURE YOUR SPIRIT – Be creative, laugh, play, hug someone. Stop taking life so seriously. We are all still children – only in bigger bodies. Be child-like.
9. APPRECIATE YOURSELF – This is your job. Others are too busy to make your happiness and well being their mission. If you have expectations that others will meet your needs (and they might sometimes…) you will likely be disappointed more often than not.
10. ALWAYS REMEMBER THERE ARE NO MISTAKES ONLY LESSONS – and whatever you do, NEVER UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES BEAT YOURSELF UP. This will only make things worse. We are all perfect, yet it is not the human way to behave perfectly at all times. If you beat yourself up, you will feel BAD and sugars and simple carbohydrates will scream out for your attention.
Am I the only one amazed that it is holiday time once again? It seems that summer just wrapped up last month and we were welcoming the splendor of autumn. Now we are busily planning for Thanksgiving and other festive occasions that arrive soon after the turkey leftovers have been gobbled up. (I noticed that this week my local supermarket is featuring a display of snow shovels right inside the main entrance!)
Have you noticed that as each year passes time seems to accelerate and the seasons fly by more rapidly than ever before? Keeping up with the responsibilities of each season is stressful. Even the “fun” things – all the festivities, the decorating, getting together with friends and family can mean added stress. So, as always, I write to remind you to take the very best care of yourself possible this holiday season.
Because this time of year can be particularly stressful it is vital that we nurture our positive relationships and talk with loving family and friends whenever we can. Being able to vent our frustrations or share our triumphs with someone who cares about us helps us feel connected. Being overly busy may complicate this at times however, and we may feel lonely and isolated if we don’t maintain those important ties through the busiest times.
Identify people who can help you to thrive during the holiday season, or any time. Find people who will listen and not judge you or feed you advice that you definitely don’t want or need. Talk to a buddy – a human one, a pet, perhaps a Chewlett or a favorite stuffed animal. I find that when folks are stressed, lonely, tired, sad, etc. they are often tempted to race for a fix of sugars and carbohydrates to calm themselves down and take the edge off their feelings. Contact your buddy instead and talk about what’s eating you.
None of us are immune to the pressures of the holiday season. This time of year brings many opportunities and one of those opportunities is to over indulge. We may think we are only going to have one piece of mom’s apple pie or cheesecake but how many of us are content to stop there? For some of us that pie may open the floodgates of craving and many of us have spent holiday season after holiday season telling ourselves to have just one little treat and finding ourselves instead overeating through not only the holiday season but also well beyond the New Year. Our lives are demanding and to live each day to the fullest requires dedication and energy. If we overindulge instead of taking care of ourselves, we are likely to find even small tasks daunting. We can easily slip out of balance and we don’t feel well. Overdoing in any area of our lives leads to lethargy and we lose the sparkle, zest and vitality required to make each day vibrant and memorable.
I am frequently asked for tips on how to get through this time of year without the self-abuse of overindulging. Here are a couple of ideas to help you:
Besides chatting with your supports, reserve time each day just for yourself (Are you surprised to hear me say that?!!). Along with the hustle and bustle of holiday time come extra tasks that compete for your time and energy – decorating, baking, choosing, buying and wrapping presents, writing thoughtful cards to friends and loved ones, etc. See if you can delegate some of your responsibilities to others.
Pay special attention your body. Get plenty of rest and pure water. Make sure to include lots of protein, healthy fats and complex carbohydrates in your diet and move your body every day. Attending to these basic physical needs is sure to help you manage everything else.
You may find yourself rushing around taking care of everyone and everything but yourself. Find ways to create private, quiet, relaxing time for yourself. If you don’t, you are likely to become overtired, overwhelmed and consequently likely to over-feed yourself as a way to cope with holiday stress. Also, do your best to balance quiet time with times of fun, laughter and joy.
One tool that I have found remarkably helpful for my clients and that I recommend without reservation is using the Bach Flower Emotional Eating Support Kit. In addition to the strategies outlined above, using Bach Flower Essences can truly make all the difference in your being able to manage your emotions without overeating at this particularly stressful time of the year. The kit contains three specific remedies that target the core issues involved in emotional overeating: Cherry Plum helps you stay in control. Crab Apple helps you appreciate your body and Chestnut Bud helps you to learn from your mistakes so you don’t keep doing the same thing, expecting different results. These little drops help balance your emotional energy, are easy to take and for so many of us they truly are the missing link. Using them four times a day can help you stay on track this holiday season and feel great about yourself!
If you attend to your “whole” picture and learn to provide whatever is most nurturing for you in each moment, you are far more likely to take care of yourself in healthy ways all season long. When you truly attend to yourself, you are better equipped to attend to the needs of others as well. You are more relaxed, more balanced and more energetic. Holiday time can be more fun and less like an exhausting commercial marathon.
So please enjoy the spirit of this time of year. Do only what you truly want to do, try the Bach Flower Remedies and decline needless chores, chaos and calories. Make this the best holiday season ever by taking the very best care of yourself. Keep yourself number one. You’re worth it! I wish you and your loved ones many, many holiday blessings!
- Dr. Denise
Dr. Denise Lamothe, international emotional eating expert, professional speaker and the author of The Taming of the Chew: A Holistic Guide to Stopping Compulsive Eating is a clinical psychologist and Doctor of Holistic Health located in Exeter NH 603-778-4814, cell 603-493-6043
www.DeniseLamothe.com or Denise@DeniseLamothe.com
Emotional Overeating, in a general sense, occurs when people make food choices based on emotional reactions. Emotional eating happens when we use food as a solution to our feelings. Think of any emotional state, and you’ll soon be able to associate a food with it. You’re bored? Why not polish off the ice cream in the fridge? Stressed? Might as well have a few chips to take your mind off your problems. As soon as you give in to a food craving, it’s easy to take your mind off of the cause of your emotional state.
The problem with using food to manage mood is that it becomes a self-reinforcing habit. You eat because you feel bad about yourself, then feel bad about yourself because you overeat.
To gain a better understanding of what emotional overeating is, and who emotional eaters are, we spoke with Dr. Denise Lamothe, clinical psychologist and doctor of holistic health. She is the founder of Emotional Overeating Awareness Month, author of the popular book, The Taming of the Chew (Penguin 2002) and an international professional speaker:
An emotional eater is (generally) someone who uses food as a way to cope with difficult feelings — sadness, anxiety, boredom, disappointment, etc. She is likely to have rigid, self-perfectionistic expectations and a negative self-image. Her self-esteem fluctuates but when she overeats, she feel badly about herself and her behavior and she is likely to punish herself and feel angry at herself often leading to depression. After overeating and beating herself up she will usually feel helpless to change. These painful feelings can easily lead her to overeat again in order to feel better. She usually feels unable to control her eating once she gets started. She may temporarily feel better by convincing herself that she will start taking care of herself next Monday, after she finishes a project, once she learns how to “fix” her relationship or something like that. Her plan usually fails of course, leading to more discouragement, frustration and anger which then can lead her back to sugars and/or simple carbohydrates for relief — indeed a vicious cycle. This is generally a pattern that she has repeated multiple times throughout her life and she may or may not be aware of it.
This blog is dedicated to helping people overcome the perpetual cycle of emotional overeating.
Welcome to EmotionalEatingHelp.org, a site devoted to helping people understand, treat, and overcome emotional overeating. This blog will be a resource for people looking to find out more about emotional eating and will offer tips and news on:
- Techniques to avoid emotional overeating
- Interviews with experts
- Advice on how to overcome emotional overeating
- Healthy alternatives to bad food
- Coping with emotional overeating
- The psychology of overeating
- Products to help emotional overeaters
- Weight loss strategies
- Mental fitness information
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